You'll get them back. When they're like ...50 ish.
Actually sooner than that. My "kids" are 30's, and they have loved hanging out with us, skiing with us, etc. since their late teens years. They live "a long way" from home, and really value when we get together. They like having their friends hang out with us, and always have. They were quite high level racers, through their NCAA years, and now work in the business. I bet that by the time our youngest was 14, she loved to grab either of us for a free ski run or two, and sought us out to do so. Might be that we know how to ski...May have had to do with being a boarding student at the local ski academy, at that time.....dunno. Interesting now, we have friends who will go 6 months without talking to their kids, and we never go more than about 3 days....unless they are out of the country. I am a firm believer that the ski experience is a good one for a family, and for raising kids.