Groups vary -
Sometimes I ski alone. That way, I pick the trail, I pick the speed, I pick the line, I pick the stopping places, I pick the next lift, and I hit the singles line. I also ski in groups, usually a chairful, sometimes two chairfuls. When you ski in groups, you need to relax and realize you aren't going to pick any of the above, at least not very often. Social skiing begins with 'social'.
And I hear nearly the same complaints from women - I don't want to ski with her, she's too [chatty, fast, gossipy, slow, needy, takes too many breaks, doesn't take enough breaks, doesn't ski my trails, gets out too early, gets out too late, starts at the wrong lift...]
So even if we eliminate the stereotypical alpha male peacocking/competing, that leave plenty of other fertile ground for reasons groups ebb and flow.
Want to know if someone is a good friend? Go ski with them for a day.
Sometimes I ski alone. That way, I pick the trail, I pick the speed, I pick the line, I pick the stopping places, I pick the next lift, and I hit the singles line. I also ski in groups, usually a chairful, sometimes two chairfuls. When you ski in groups, you need to relax and realize you aren't going to pick any of the above, at least not very often. Social skiing begins with 'social'.
And I hear nearly the same complaints from women - I don't want to ski with her, she's too [chatty, fast, gossipy, slow, needy, takes too many breaks, doesn't take enough breaks, doesn't ski my trails, gets out too early, gets out too late, starts at the wrong lift...]
So even if we eliminate the stereotypical alpha male peacocking/competing, that leave plenty of other fertile ground for reasons groups ebb and flow.
Want to know if someone is a good friend? Go ski with them for a day.