So very true. We were at Heavenly one day last year on a true powder day (about 2'+). It was late and we stood at the top of a seriously bumped out blue run. I'd been down it already and the bumps were taller than my waist in places. Not Sierra Cement, but far, far from soft and pliable.
I said to her (and my daughter who was also a little freaked out): its only steep right here at the lip, and then its actually quite mellow. Just go slowly and make your turns around the bumps."
No way. She wants to take our skis off, and walk about 100' laterally with a 30' rise to go over to the other run we saw from the lift. To be fair, it was less treacherous looking, but who wants to climb? I argued with her for a couple of minutes and gave up. We took our skis off (I couldn't abandon her and my daughter) and started walking. Before we got far, an instructor stops with two students and asks if we are alright. My wife explains that we are going over that hump there to the easier run on the other side because these bumps are just too big.
He smiles and says "its only steep right here at the lip, and then its actually quite mellow. Just go slowly and make your turns around the bumps." Yeah, so close to word for word what I said, that I start laughing and muttered "good luck".
What does my wife say? "OK" and starts putting on her skis.
But she has seen the wonders I worked with my son with this approach, so I think she is actually motivated to try it. Believe me, I will abandon at the first sign of resistance
. And we haven't shared a canoe in years. Secret to a successful marriage . . .