FWIW, I'm a lot more "not lightweight" than
@Tricia , and I bring a healthy skepticism to skis marketed for women, but in the last few years I've fallen in love with the Santa Ana, the La Nina, and the Zelda F106. The first two I believe are the same design as the men's ski, just with less stiffness. Works for me. I don't know if the Zelda is the women's version of anything, or its own beast entirely.
The last ski I found too soft was the Line Sick Day 110 - definitely not marketed as a women's ski, although their women's version, the Pandora, was identical except for the range of lengths.
And the fully rockered powder skis I've had so far have been marketed as soft, but were simply too heavy for me to ski all day in powder and chop. Those were unisex/men's.
Women are lucky in that we have the ability to choose from either pool without stigma, while men, if they are interested in women's skis, need to overcome some level of mental barrier and possible public opinion.
I had a guy admire my traditionally-cambered Icelantic Nomads 6 or 7 years ago. He saw the TheSkiDiva sticker on it and lamented that he couldn't ski them because they were women's skis.