A bit of a thread drift, but we are on page 11.
Can you handle the truth?
The truth is we all discriminate, and race plays a part in that discrimination. It's not just human nature, it's nature and it's been known about by smart folk for centuries. "As the sage says, "Every creature likes its like" " (Thomas Aquinas circa 1250 AD)...I may be paraphrasing; my memory isn't as good as it I remember it once was. We like those who are most like us more than we like those who are different. Being of a different race makes people different.
How to combat that?
Education - the gene that causes skin coloration doesn't make people as different as one might think. I am also much more like some of my friends of a different ethnic background than like some of the adze holes of my own ethnicity whom I despise.
Can you handle the truth?
We are all prejudicial. As we go through life, we learn and base our decisions at least partly on past experience.
If seven out of ten times a cop pulls over a car with green people in it there's trouble, and seven out of ten times a constable on patrol pulls over a car with blue people in it there's no problem, you can bet the approach will be different and harsher when he pulls over a car full of green people than when he pulls over a car full of blue people.
The best way to combat that aspect imho is to
change the experience. It's harder to do in today's world due to media. Yes seeing stuff on social media or the news does not have nearly the same effect as experiencing it in real life, but quite often, especially in places where there is a lack of real experience (e.g. as shown up-thread where there are few black people - and much exposure to black people comes from media), if media consists of watching BLM rioters and looters on the news or social media, the experience is not so good. Social media is the worst, because it concentrates stuff, presenting fewer choices of what to watch based on what you've already watched.
Do what you can to balance out the negative experience so often seen in social media with positive social media.
@karlo Can you handle the truth?
I was devastated when I learned that no matter how well I skied, I would never be as fast as a good skier who outweighed me by 100 lbs (at least in the DH where fast has true meaning
). Don't believe me? I dare you to find a light weight DH globe winner. Many places have two programs, one competitive and one pre-competitive. My elder children lucked out when they took the pre-competitive swimming lessons - the same coach who taught the competitive team taught them to swim very well (I couldn't afford the ski lessons).