Prior to this thread devolving into a "mine is bigger than yours" contest with a Beach Boy/California dreaming theme. I believe the initial thread was more along the line "Making the best of a bad situation."
In the age of internet and cable TV, we all consume way too much porn. Be it porn of the original flavor, ski, food, or whatever flavor of the week that floats your boat. All that porn just get us to fantasize being/doing/having the biggest/bad-est/whatever-est on a perpetual basis. We will not settle for middling - ever.
Unfortunate, reality is we all live within a tangled web of constraints. Simple constraints like time, relationships, family, location, work, money, health, etc. Most of the constraints are rather flexible when taken alone. With time, they get weaved into a very rigid interlaced web. Literally a Gordian knot. Not many are capable of/want/need Alexander’s f*** it all attitude when it comes to dealing with their own personal knot.
Hey, guys. Try this while you are watch your favorite porn of the original flavor. Turn to your SO and say “Honey, why don’t you look like the babe on the screen?” I can guarantee the result will be along the line of her reaching over and executing a quick Gibb slap to the back of your head and a retort “Well, you don’t look anything like the dude on the screen either!” In the end, you ain’t getting any. So much for fantasies.
“If you can't be with the one you love. Love the one you're with.” Stephen Stills.
“My favorite ski area? The one I am skiing today.” Warren Miller.
When it comes to skiing, it is not the numbers, the hype, the talk, the location, the dream, the fantasy, etc. that matters. It’s about getting your a$$ out there and let it slide down the hills. Everything else is BS. For me, give me 1,200/1,500 vertical, a lift and some slippery stuff and I’m happy as a pig in s**t. I really don’t care whether the slippery stuff is soft, powder, crud, slush, hard or boiler plate.
If the condition runs towards firm. Very likely in the NE. Give me a pair of race ski or a good pair of front side carver and I’ll have a ball. You want the truth? Most skiers fantasized about powder/soft snow days because they can’t handle hard pack or boiler plates. Sounds like Jack from A Few Good Men. The short comings are largely due to technical and equipment issues.
So cut all the over thinking and BS. Just go out there and get some skiing done. Wherever you are.
As a wise man once said, “No matter what, bad s** is still better than no s**.”