Thanks. I agree 100% with the multi-week ski school. We really wanted to do that with her this year, but my local hill didn't open until late January and they scuttled their kids multi-week program. By the time it was obviously not going to work there, the other mountain nearby that has a weekly kid's ski camp was fully booked. We won't make that mistake next year, for sure. We'll book it at whichever one opens first.I saw that you already tried an individual lesson. I would strongly suggest not to worry over this too much. Pushing a fearful child will almost certainly have the opposite effect. A six-week ski school with other kids, maybe next year, is probably just the ticket. (I also like the follow-you technique. You can start that on the magic carpet, too, if you haven't already.)
Some kids (and adults) are pretty fearless, but the instinct that holds people back is very, very strong. It originates in the old brain, with other lifesaving skills like breathing and heartbeat. It's the main cause of leaning back when we know that putting pressure on the tips will give us better control.
It takes a lot of experience to get oneself forward on the skis, combating millennia of survival instinct passed down through our DNA. A fearful child is just doing what nature intended, for the danger she perceives. Watching a group of peers try and succeed often gives a child a new perspective. See: your swing set example.
It's hard to have patience with this kind of fear. But it's very, very real to her.
We wanted to do it the year before even, but that year they both got scuttled due to covid.
Edit, as a note: while I am expressing some frustration here on this board, I really do try not to put any pressure on her. Last weekend, on her way up the magic carpet, she turned around and asked me "What do you want me to practice this time?" and my response was: "Just have fun!". We have a great time together. I do sometimes ask her if we can go to the "big" lift, but if she says no, I don't press the issue. And if we do try the big lift, we always return to the magic carpet whenever she asks.
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