Because at slow speeds you are not light/weightless/floating during the transition and will end up in the backseat if you flex. Which is why you should not learn a beginner how to flex imho.
You need a certain level of performance in your turn in order to perform flexing corrrectly. That level of performance is not there if you are going slow.
Yeah - for beginners, I normally reduce flexing to just "smooth transfer" or "smooth release" i.e. the opposite of push and jerk off of the ski... "bend Ze knee" type of stuff... there is good value in teaching it.
Deep flexing is just a red herring and totally driven by performance, IMHO. Either steep runs or rhythm or offset or performance etc. Flexing is often misunderstood, I think - some either don't do enough for the performance of what they're trying to do and some do too much of, and end up squatty in the back seat... to quote some truth "it takes years of training and awareness of the feedback from the ski for a skier to nail it every time—especially on the course (
Hirscher, Ryding)".
In terms of teaching and learning it, yes, retraction is very important. And they all suck and look weird in the beginning, the more performance they aim for, the worse it is.
It's a matter of how great skiers are created - we touched on that. Some coaches prefer to not go near flexing because it's hard to coach properly, it messes with a lot of things - so many go back to just "hop and push forward" and then let some flexion appear in time, on course or steeps or some other ways - but that always leads to less mastery and variation, because racers learn to do it in response to cues, not feel. Some teach flexion in the wrong place (to finish the turn as opposed to release the turn, subtle but massive difference).
The other way is to teach flexing specifically, this is one I subscribe to and done it to both recreational skiers and racers including FIS, with very good results. But it takes a while and it takes conviction that you can push through that place where you can't ski anymore... and a willingness to ski like crap for a while - but it does provide a jump start to many and even for lower level racers, there is great value I found. In fact, I find it much better to leave fore/aft for after flexing is mastered (within reason, of course) - that's a major point for skull bashing in coaching discussions, heh.