Thank you all, some very important points. Later on I may try to make a summary of all the comments. Here are some tentative answers to my own questions:
1. No more long/burly GS skis and stiff boots: I am quite happy now with my softish 167 Rossignol Hero elite CA (no titanal, only carbon) and with my Dalbello DS 100, instead of my Dobermann 130. No more Mantra, now Salomon QST. Much less tiring, much more enjoyable.
NO DOUBT THAT APPROPRIATE EQUIPMENT CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE AND MAKE SKIING CHALLENGING SNOW & TERRAIN EASIER. I AM STILL EXPLORING WHAT I NEED IN NEW SKIS & BOOTS TO FIT MY CURRENT SITUATION AS I TRANSITION FROM MOSTLY EASTERN SKIING TO MOSTLY WESTERN SKIING.
2. Now I don’t wake up very early (say 5.30 am) in order to be ready to start before the lifts open. I take my time, I give the priority to a good sleep, so I start late, say at 10.30. I now avoid Saturdays and Sundays, so I find mostly empty slopes, which I like. I now ski mostly on my own, and don’t worry about accidents etc as before. If I have to get hurt (not that I look for it) so be it. AGREE, WEEKDAYS ARE FUN AND RELAXING. I USUALLY GO TO BED PRETTY EARLY WHEN I PLAN TO SKI NEXT DAY. PARTIAL SKI DAYS ARE OK, GROOMERS ARE OK, NOT SKIING FULL DAYS/ BELL TO BELL IS OK (THESE COME UNDER THE NOTHING TO PROVE CATEGORY). FINDING SOME AGE-APPROPRIATE SKI BUDDIES IS A GOOD STRATEGY TO HELP WITH PACING, SAFETY, AND MOTIVATION.
3. I have improved a lot in this last season, and I am sure that this is due to my new gear. In the past, I had weekly coaching and my progress had reached a plateau. When I was racing, till about 10 years ago, my ranking did not improve. I am convinced that if I tried again now (no), I would do better, technically, because of my new gear, especially the softer boots. Also, I increased their size by 5mm in length and although they are still snug, I don’t suffer anymore. I can set my boots after a couple of runs and can keep them buckled all day. And they are warm! EACH YEAR I AM GETTING OLDER AND SLOWER, BUT STILL OCCASIONALLY GET THE FEELING OF FLYING AND THAT KEEPS ME STOKED.
4. New gear: it is not all marketing BS, it is worth knowing what is new, maybe trying some new gear. AFTER EXPERIENCING A HUGE SNOW YEAR AT SNOWBIRD I WILL NEVER AGAIN LISTEN TO SOMEONE WHO SAYS FAT SKIS ARE UNNECESSARY. THEY ARE ESSENTIAL FOR WESTERN OFF-PISTE AND DEEP SNOW SKIING.
5. I still feel important to set objectives for the season (dreams, one could say) and use the help that a good coach can give me: about one hour with a coach after 10 hours skied on my own, when I sometimes do exercises, drills, etc.
All in all, I think that I ski better now and certainly enjoy it more than when I was younger.
I WAS NEVER A GREAT SKIER AND STILL SUCK, BUT GOT AWAY WITH STUFF BECAUSE I WAS EXTREMELY FIT IN 20s AND 30s. HOWEVER, WHEN YOU LOSE YOUR BEST PLAYING CARD, YOU DON'T WIN TOO MANY POKER GAMES AND I GET A LOT OF ACHES AND PAINS FROM SKIING THESE DAYS
Cheers all