I thought I just made it clear that I agree with you. There are many weaknesses in our police departments that need to be addresses.
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Your kid's not the only one of us who has had trouble with vindictive authorities. Now, imagine what it's like when instead of previous history and them knowing you instead they target you as a stranger simply due to the color of your skin. After that happens over and over.. you're likely to avoid places without other folks you know and trust or at least look like you. It's risky to venture in to what might be hostile territory or at least unfamiliar and potentially risky. However, the ski club delivers that safety zone in numbers. It's on us to confirm that ski resorts are safe from those other types of problems elsewhere so folks feel comfortable coming solo too.I thought I just made it clear that I agree with you. There are many weaknesses in our police departments that need to be addresses.
That’s exactly what the protests are about, dealing with remnants of what happened generations ago. We have to carry water on both shoulders and deal with both issues
From your own posts, it’s clear you understand how different the issues are You assume that one cannot be upset at both, or that the response to both must be the same.What I'm asking is why you're not just as upset about the other lives?
Yes, I know. I couldn’t come up with the more appropriate word. Maybe it’s two words. “continuing legacy”?it's not just "remnants."
I think we need to be careful about what “owe them” means. It’s not monetary. I think “them” is “us”; we owe it to ourselves, to enable the development of the most talented amongst us, in skiing and in everything else. How many inventors, entrepreneurs, artists, athletes have we lost because we haven’t done that? We have an ever more competitive world and a untapped asset is right under our noses. Are we willing to nurture and develop all of us?We owe them.
^^^^^^^^This. My black family members, especially the boys, since elementary school have had to carefully map out their comings and goings - to school, friends, the 7-11, etc. - specifically to avoid running into the police. To keep from being routinely hassled - but also traumatized.Your kid's not the only one of us who has had trouble with vindictive authorities. Now, imagine what it's like when instead of previous history and them knowing you instead they target you as a stranger simply due to the color of your skin. After that happens over and over.. you're likely to avoid places without other folks you know and trust or at least look like you. It's risky to venture in to what might be hostile territory or at least unfamiliar and potentially risky. However, the ski club delivers that safety zone in numbers. It's on us to confirm that ski resorts are safe from those other types of problems elsewhere so folks feel comfortable coming solo too.
Curiosity and discussion lay the groundwork for understanding, w/ friendships being a major part of the desired result.
Using skiing as a conduit for conversation is brilliant. Thank you everyone for sharing your stories and Vision. The honesty and desire to avoid descending into chaos is palpable here on Pugski. That is our strength here. Curiosity and discussion lay the groundwork for understanding, w/ friendships being a major part of the desired result. Those friendships lead to experiences that can over time, enhance perspectives. That is the role skiing can play in the broader equation. Realize that fostering those cross-cultural friendships may be a daunting task requiring an incredible amount of patience. It takes time to break down hundreds of years of cultural conditioning. Skiing has the potential to accelerate that process and be a catalyst that allows all parties to focus on fostering "Togetherness". Through this medium we could ultimately achieve the respect desired and work towards a place in Time where we can, as @RiderRay says " ... receive the rights that the Constitution of this great country guarantees us "
Exactly! One of the primary asks is that we all be students during this process. There is a desperate need for development of mechanisms of interaction. In the absence of those "mechanisms" it makes it harder to dissect ideas like those in the original post of @RiderRay down to a place where we are in agreement. The ideal is to let go of the established rhetoric, detach from it... listen w/ that 3rd ear, research and accept our history and be willing to divest ourselves PERSONALLY of oppressive systems. That leads to questions around "What are oppressive systems and how do they manifest w/in our infrastructure?" That, is the loaded question that will either tear us apart or ultimately bring us together...Thank you for this. I only thing I know is that I have much to learn and intend to do so.
Just retired the "Soapbox"!!!!!!!
While we don't encourage soapboxing, I'm not reading your posts as such.Just retired the "Soapbox"!!!!!!!
We are there every year at the beginning of May. I probably won't remember to reach out to you personally when we start announcing the dates, but keep your eye's on the Meet UP area under resorts.I am fairly proud of pugski for being able to have this discussion. I grew up in a location where the overt racism of the local ski club turned me off the sport for decades. Once I came back, I remembered why I loved it, but those origins have always nagged at me and over the last few weeks moreso, of course. Skiing will be better for all when it is more diverse. I wish I had been at A-basin that weekend.
Pittsford, NY. No better place to grow up.My inspiration is this news story out of Rochester, NY, Black or White, Relax and Have a Beer: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/brad-paisely-have-a-beer-friends-rochester-new-york/
Kinda stretching to link this to skiing but in the interest of expanding our sport... Insider info... like stock tips! When skiing, or desiring to discuss skiing and you come across, or wish to open the skiing world to more Blacks... in the continued interest of promoting Conversation and Education here is a video series that will teach all of us about overcoming our hurdles. I've learned so much by watching these short focused outtakes. So far it's a 4 pt series and expanding. I'm also reading as if I were still back at Dartmouth! If you would like a list of recommended books feel free to PM me. Everyone at their own pace and thanks for making Pugski a focal point for truly ALL things skiing related including working to diversify our sport!Exactly! One of the primary asks is that we all be students during this process. There is a desperate need for development of mechanisms of interaction. In the absence of those "mechanisms" it makes it harder to dissect ideas like those in the original post of @RiderRay down to a place where we are in agreement. The ideal is to let go of the established rhetoric, detach from it... listen w/ that 3rd ear, research and accept our history and be willing to divest ourselves PERSONALLY of oppressive systems. That leads to questions around "What are oppressive systems and how do they manifest w/in our infrastructure?" That, is the loaded question that will either tear us apart or ultimately bring us together...