Fonzy, welcome - CLT here as well - look forward to meeting y'all sometime and skiing or other mtn sports. WNC is a Shangri-La for Mountain Biking if you are also into that - Pisgah National Forest around Brevard being the epicentre.
We have this thread for 2021-22 season that is chock full of great NC resort beta - be sure to check this out:
https://www.skitalk.com/threads/2021-2022-mid-atlantic-ski-resorts-conditions-meetups.24505/
Glad to have more of us here on Skitalk!
RE: Ski team - we did Sugar one year w/ my son and as others mention door to door it was 2.5 sometimes 2.25 (I could get there in 2h15 if we smoked it) which does become a burden over time. Practice starts at 8 AM sharp "on the fence" at Sugar. They're flexible though and pretty laid back even though they do emphasize Ski racing. It was a great experience for us, yet one we didn't repeat. Wasn't a 'take' for him - he's a great skier now at 12 yo - does wrestling and football. If we lived up there, might have tried more seasons, dunno.
I have a thread on that experience somewhere here, was the 19-20 season I think before the crazy times kicked in.