it's not necessarily about the winds, its about the storm surge and rain. My parents home was swept off its foundation by a rogue wave and a 16' surge. The winds, over 125mph were inconsequential. Yes, the aftermath is the worst part if you survive the storm. when its 90 degrees with high humidity, closed roads, no electricity, no gas, food or water its not fun. Plus once the heat starts to create mold and stench of rotting things kicks in, its not a great experience. if you can get out, get out.....
Yup. Mom says don't worry about it, it's "only" water and they are high up. I'm guessing 20 feet? I'll ask. Maybe it will reassure me. I know they had to follow code about distance from the water, but probably not height.
My dad specifically said they didn't want to leave because in the past, their area has been fine, but it can take weeks to get back if you've left. sigh.
This is the tactic I've had to take with my parents on several things like getting a will in place, getting snow removal service contracted, etc. It's maddening. I'm crossing my fingers for your parents and hope you have enough wine available for you to calm your nerves.
Thanks. The tactic didn't work, and it really IS too late by now.