@Doug Briggs gave a very good answer here.
@Wendy You may have partially answered your own problem indirectly. Confidence in your strength may be the underlying issue. Everything else may just a symptom.
The hard answer maybe how to overcome that. Most cases time and steady building does that.
The better instructors can be build on this here with good advise and drills.
@Wendy You may have partially answered your own problem indirectly. Confidence in your strength may be the underlying issue. Everything else may just a symptom.
The hard answer maybe how to overcome that. Most cases time and steady building does that.
The better instructors can be build on this here with good advise and drills.