If groomers make you barf, you can still have a good few days at DV; I will recommend you join up with the expert mtn tour.
I did 1 day at DV on Saturady; had a good time and our host moved at an extremely fast pace, We started with 8, and dropped 3 in order to get us all around the mtn and to the runs he had picked out for us in the limited time. You have to be able to do the whole bump run or glades run without rest to keep pace, and it was perhaps too fast to really absorb what we were doing. There were a bumps, glades, chutes, 1 short 5min bootpack, traverses through singletrack in forest with rollers and whoopdeedoos, definitely requires an adv or expert skillset that has done all these things before to keep up.
The host was perhaps overly aggressive in his pace, I am sure the dropped folks were not feeling VIP. A person in our group said he joined 3 of these over 2 days; and each host had different runs and secret stashes to show. He did note our particular host was the most frenetic, the other tours he took on the weekdays were less frenetic as the group was also smaller, so a host can't just drop everyone if there are only 3 to begin with.
Still, great for a day or two, but if you want big mtn terrain, dv is not for you, the other mtns offer much more craggy features that you seek.
DV allows familes to ski together not have to stress about some of the other nitpicks that plague resorts, and have a pleasant time.