Arguing for the sake of arguing

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  1. Tricia

    Tricia The Velvet Hammer Admin Pugski Ski Tester

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  2. VickiK

    VickiK Getting off the lift Skier

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    What the eff ?! You vacuous, toffee-nosed, malodorous pervert, I certainly wouldn't want anyone conciliatory.
     
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    Tricia The Velvet Hammer Admin Pugski Ski Tester

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    Right??
    I forget how funny Monty Python is and then I see a clip like this.
     
  4. David Chaus

    David Chaus If I am skiing the world is a perfect place. Skier

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    I actually use this clip in couples therapy sessions to illustrate how the way they are arguing is a problem, rather than the arguing being a problem.

    In other words many people are often in the abuse room and just being mean, when they think they are arguing;
    Many are in the complaint room when they think they are arguing;
    Many are hitting each other over the head with past grievances and emotional baggage when they think they are arguing;
    Many are simply contradicting each other and can’t even agree on the facts, when they think they are arguing.

    “An argument is an intellectual process.”
    “An argument is a series of statements to prove a point.”
    I will often have clients schedule a weekly argument session, so they have time to make their case logically and calmly, rather than simply be reactive to an emotional trigger in the heat of the moment.
     
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    ScotsSkier USSA Coach Industry Insider Pugski Ski Tester

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    no you are wrong! ...:roflmao:....:popcorn:
     


  6. Nancy Hummel

    Nancy Hummel Ski more, talk less. Instructor

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    I think I have been in all of those rooms. Interesting perspective.
     
  7. cantunamunch

    cantunamunch Meh Skier

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    Nonstarter.

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  8. David Chaus

    David Chaus If I am skiing the world is a perfect place. Skier

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    (Sniffs bait and decides to bite)

    I’m sorry, but I am most certainly not.
     
  9. markojp

    markojp mtn rep for the gear on my feet Industry Insider Instructor

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    Yeah.... whatever.



    ( ogsmile )
     
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    David Chaus If I am skiing the world is a perfect place. Skier

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    Tricia, I don’t suppose your post had any hidden messages? Anything perhaps about most of the threads in the Ski School and Instructor forum? Just wondering....
     
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    Why do you ask?
     
  12. Guy in Shorts

    Guy in Shorts Tree Psycho Skier

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    Using logic in an emotional argument has always been my downfall.
     
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    VickiK Getting off the lift Skier

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    That is awesome!
     
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    jmeb Stereotypical Front Range Weekend Warrior Skier

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    Tricia The Velvet Hammer Admin Pugski Ski Tester

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    Do you think this thread could be referenced in threads from time to time?
    Just asking...
     
  16. mdf

    mdf entering the Big Couloir Skier

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    Is this where the "answering a question with a question" lessons meet?
     
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    What do you think?
     
  18. David Chaus

    David Chaus If I am skiing the world is a perfect place. Skier

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    Do you think I see what you did there?
     
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    pchewn Out on the slopes Skier

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    I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
     
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    Tricia The Velvet Hammer Admin Pugski Ski Tester

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    @mdf how do you feel about that?
     

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